Okay so, during freshman orientation I noticed this girl (Well actually two. But I'll focus on the first one). So she lives in my dorm, on the floor above mine. Recently, I got her to notice me. Here are my methods:
1. Learn their schedule. This doesn't give you permission to be a creep. Just notice. For example, I lucked out because my crush is shy & always hangs out with her friend. So she's pretty set in a schedule. She's a music major & my music major friends have classes with her, so I know when she'll be in & out of the music building. She also goes to dinner with her friend every night at the same time.
2. Pop up places. After you learn their schedule, pop up at those places. When my crush leaves the music building or is going into it, I'll most of the time be walking around. So she knows my face.
3. Show them that you're cool. I leave with my friends for dinner the same time she does with her friend. So we're conveniently in the same elevator. I always start a conversation with my friends, where I'll say something funny or witty. Crack a joke. Tell an interesting story. Give your opinion on something & try to sound philosophical.
4. Engage. Accidentally bump into them and say something like "Oh sorry. My bad! Hey, haven't I seen you around?" Start a conversation. Crack another joke! Even if it's a bad joke, they already know you're cool. And from there, when you see them again, strike up another conversation. After becoming friends, get their number, text them, hang out with them.
You're welcome.
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